Please don't feel obligated to read this post. I just think they are fun and interesting to look back on and see what changes and what stays the same.
Colors: dusty blue, deep purple & gray
Food:
Italian! Especially pizza!
Scent:
Peach and Almond Extract
Dessert:
Cream Pies
Restaurant:
Red Robin
Season:
Autumn
Scenery
I like to escape to: green forests with lakes and waterfalls
Things
I love to do: watch movies, listen to music, play with Cody & Carson, sew,
blog, and digital scrapbook, chat & spend time with friends
Movies
I absolutely love: The Lord of the Rings, What to Expect When You Are Expecting
and Avengers
TV
Shows that are favorite: What I Like About You, CHUCK, White Collar, Numb3rs
I
love my sugar and Dr. Pepper, totally a bad habit, but delicious!
Places
I would love to visit: Australia, New Zealand, San Diego, Prince Edward Island,
London England
Jobs
I have: secretary at Ipaco, bookkeeping at Embroidery Central, janitorial at
Ipaco, paint apartments, CutesieBee and babysit Carson & Cody
Favorite
Music: I LOVE Two Steps From Hell. I love movie score music, which is kind of
what they are. This music fills my soul. I also love The Canadian Tenors
version of Hallelujah
Favorite
Animals: Elephants, Penguins, Otters & Sea Turtles
Favorite
Disney Princess: Rapunzel
Favorite
Disney Sidekicks: Pascal & Olaf
Top
Disney Movies: Tangled, Frozen, Sleeping Beauty, Robin Hood and Lilo &
Stitch
My
type of humor is pretty sarcastic, so I totally find things like this funny
For
games & other activities, I like Play Nine, Monopoly, Sudoku and word
searches
Other
just for fun insight:
ISFJ
PERSONALITY (“THE DEFENDER”)
The
ISFJ personality type is quite unique, as many of their qualities defy the
definition of their individual traits. Though possessing the Feeling (F) trait,
ISFJs have excellent analytical abilities; though Introverted (I), they have
well-developed people skills and robust social relationships; and though they
are a Judging (J) type, ISFJs are often receptive to change and new ideas. As
with so many things, people with the ISFJ personality type are more than the
sum of their parts, and it is the way they use these strengths that defines who
they are.
ISFJs
are true altruists, meeting kindness with kindness-in-excess and engaging the
work and people they believe in with enthusiasm and generosity..
ISFJ
personalities (especially Turbulent ones) are often meticulous to the point of
perfectionism, and though they procrastinate, they can always be relied on to
get the job done on time. ISFJs take their responsibilities personally,
consistently going above and beyond, doing everything they can to exceed
expectations and delight others, at work and at home.
We
Must Be Seen to Be Believed
The
challenge for ISFJs is ensuring that what they do is noticed. They have a
tendency to underplay their accomplishments, and while their kindness is often
respected, more cynical and selfish people are likely to take advantage of
ISFJs' dedication and humbleness by pushing work onto them and then taking the
credit. ISFJs need to know when to say no and stand up for themselves if they
are to maintain their confidence and enthusiasm.
ISFJs
utilize excellent memories not to retain data and trivia, but to remember
people, and details about their lives. When it comes to gift-giving, ISFJs have
no equal, using their imagination and natural sensitivity to express their
generosity in ways that touch the hearts of their recipients. While this is
certainly true of their coworkers, whom people with the ISFJ personality type
often consider their personal friends, it is in family that their expressions
of affection fully bloom.
If
I Can Protect You, I Will
ISFJ
personalities are a wonderful group, rarely sitting idle while a worthy cause
remains unfinished. ISFJs' ability to connect with others on an intimate level
is unrivaled among Introverts, and the joy they experience in using those
connections to maintain a supportive, happy family is a gift for everyone
involved.
ISFJ
Strengths
Supportive
– ISFJs are the universal helpers, sharing their knowledge, experience, time
and energy with anyone who needs it, and all the more so with friends and
family. People with this personality type strive for win-win situations,
choosing empathy over judgment whenever possible.
Reliable
and Patient – Rather than offering sporadic, excited rushes that leave things
half finished, ISFJs are meticulous and careful, taking a steady approach and bending
with the needs of the situation just enough to accomplish their end goals.
ISFJs not only ensure that things are done to the highest standard, but often
go well beyond what is required.
Imaginative
and Observant – ISFJs are very imaginative, and use this quality as an
accessory to empathy, observing others' emotional states and seeing things from
their perspective. With their feet firmly planted on the ground, it is a very
practical imagination, though they do find things quite fascinating and inspiring.
Enthusiastic
– When the goal is right, ISFJs take all this support, reliability and
imagination and apply it to something they believe will make a difference in
people's lives – whether fighting poverty with a global initiative or simply
making a customer's day.
Loyal
and Hard-Working – Given a little time, this enthusiasm grows into loyalty –
ISFJ personalities often form an emotional attachment to the ideas and
organizations they've dedicated themselves to. Anything short of meeting their
obligations with good, hard work fails their own expectations.
Good
Practical Skills – The best part is, ISFJs have the practical sense to actually
do something with all this altruism. If mundane, routine tasks are what need to
be done, ISFJs can see the beauty and harmony that they create, because they
know that it helps them to care for their friends, family, and anyone else who
needs it.
ISFJ
Weaknesses
Humble
and Shy – The meek shall inherit the earth, but it's a long road if they
receive no recognition at all. This is possibly ISFJs' biggest challenge, as
they are so concerned with others' feelings that they refuse to make their
thoughts known, or to take any duly earned credit for their contributions.
ISFJs' standards for themselves are also so high that, knowing they could have
done some minor aspect of a task better, they often downplay their successes
entirely.
Take
Things Too Personally – ISFJs have trouble separating personal and impersonal
situations – any situation is still an interaction between two people, after
all – and any negativity from conflict or criticism can carry over from their
professional to their personal lives, and back again.
Repress
Their Feelings – People with the ISFJ personality type are private and very
sensitive, internalizing their feelings a great deal. Much in the way that
ISFJs protect others' feelings, they must protect their own, and this lack of
healthy emotional expression can lead to a lot of stress and frustration.
Overload
Themselves – Their strong senses of duty and perfectionism combine with this
aversion to emotional conflict to create a situation where it is far too easy
for ISFJs to overload themselves – or to be overloaded by others – as they
struggle silently to meet everyone's expectations, especially their own.
Reluctant
to Change – These challenges can be particularly hard to address since ISFJ
personalities value traditions and history highly in their decisions. A
situation sometimes needs to reach a breaking point before ISFJs are persuaded
by circumstance, or the strong personality of a loved one, to alter course.
Too
Altruistic – This is all compounded and reinforced by ISFJs' otherwise
wonderful quality of altruism. Being such warm, good-natured people, ISFJs are
willing to let things slide, to believe that things will get better soon, to
not burden others by accepting their offers of help, while their troubles mount
unassisted.
ISFJ
RELATIONSHIPS
When
it comes to romantic relationships, ISFJs' kindness grows into a joy that is
only found in taking care of their family and home, in being there for
emotional and practical support whenever it's needed. Home is where the heart
is for people with the ISFJ personality type, and in no other area of their
lives do they strive with such dedication to create the harmony and beauty they
wish to see in the world.
ISFJs'
shyness and sensitivity shield what are, beneath the surface, incredibly strong
feelings. While not always obvious to others, this river of emotion can't be
taken lightly or for granted.
ISFJs
are trustworthy, loyal, loving and faithful and nothing brings them more joy
than the commitment of an appreciative and thriving relationship. The best
matches are those who share these sensibilities, namely those who share the
Observant (S) trait, with one or two opposing traits to ensure that both
partners have room to grow, develop and help each other along, 'til the end of
their days.
ISFJs
need a lot of positive feedback, and admitting this need certainly shows
vulnerability, but if that vulnerability is well handled, it creates the deep
bonds that ISFJ personalities look for.
Yet,
as their friendships develop, ISFJs' sense of loyalty may push them to lean
ever more on themselves to meet their friends' needs, to the point of
neglecting their own. ISFJs show this in a few ways, from going clearly out of
their ways to stick to even trivial commitments, to simply not wanting to
disagree or say no for fear of causing turbulence.
ISFJs'
warmth and care make parenting something that often comes naturally to them. Many
people with this personality type feel like parenting is the task they were
born for, taking no small pleasure in the sense of personal importance and
responsibility they feel in ensuring that their children grow up to be healthy,
confident and successful. At the same time, ISFJs are anything but arrogant,
and will hardly take their natural skill in this department for granted.
In
many ways, ISFJs are the backbone of the modern workforce. Altruistic and
well-rounded, no other personality type is so well-suited to be of service of
others. It is no surprise that many ISFJs are not just good at supporting their
coworkers and customers in human resources and support positions, they
genuinely enjoy it, as it gives them the chance to calm frustrations, see things
through to a practical solution, and to be thanked, appreciated, at the close
of each ordeal.
Be
Humble and Earnest
ISFJs
are skilled at remembering things about others which makes them not only
valuable assistants, but well-liked colleagues. People with the ISFJ
personality type can always be counted on to remember a birthday, a graduation,
or simply a frequent customers' name, and that can make all the difference. Add
to these amiable qualities ISFJs' meticulousness, hard work and dedication, and
it's no surprise that their careers often progress smoothly, with few of the
ups and downs that accompany more high-flying types.
However,
ISFJs are unlikely to actively seek out managerial positions, and are still
more unlikely to brag about their accomplishments. ISFJ personalities prefer to
be rewarded by seeing first-hand the positive impact of their efforts, and will
remain enthusiastic simply knowing that what they do is genuinely appreciated
by the people they care for. This makes them natural counselors, technical
support, and interior designers, where they are able to help others one-on-one
without having to worry about corporate politics.
Whether
they seek promotion or not it happens often enough, as ISFJs' ability to
implement ideas and “create order from chaos” is bound to make an impression.
ISFJ
IN THE WORKPLACE
Whether
subordinate, colleague or manager, ISFJs share the goal of putting good service
and dedication above all else. Whether helping customers directly, helping
coworkers get projects finished on time or helping teams keep organized and
productive, people with the ISFJ personality type can always be relied on for
their kindness and ability to listen to concerns, and to find ways to resolve
them. Win-win situations are ISFJs' bread and butter, and no one takes quite
the same pleasure in finding satisfying resolutions to day-to-day challenges.
ISFJ
Subordinates
As
subordinates, ISFJs exemplify the strength of humble dedication. Relied on and
respected for their patience and commitment, ISFJ personalities really only
seek one reward for their work: the satisfaction of knowing that whoever they
helped feels heartfelt thanks. On the other hand, this humbleness can hold them
back – ISFJs are quite unwilling to advertise their achievements, often for
fear of creating unnecessary friction, which makes it too easy for them to be
overlooked when opportunities come along.
ISFJs
are people of incredible loyalty, often trying to follow favored managers to
new positions and locations. Though perfectly capable of accepting change,
ISFJs must feel that it's for the right reasons.
Few
personality types are as practical and dedicated as ISFJs. Known for their
reliability and altruism, ISFJs are good at creating and maintaining a secure
and stable environment for themselves and their loved ones. ISFJs' dedication
is invaluable in many areas, including their own personal growth.
Yet
ISFJs can be easily tripped up in areas where their kindness and practical
approach are more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or
keeping) a partner, learning to relax or improvise, reaching dazzling heights
on the career ladder, or managing their workload, ISFJs need to put in a
conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.
